Bekky MayApr 18Birthday bluesComing up on Saturday is Rich’s birthday, it would have been his 44th. I will be marking the day with friends and cake. His wonderful...
Bekky MayMar 6A year and a half...It has now been a whole year and a half since Rich left us, a whole 18 months. I keep thinking it was last year that he died, but it was...
Bekky MayAug 30, 2021One year.One year. 10.30am on the 30th of August 2020. One whole year since you’ve been gone. How can that be, when it feels like just yesterday....
Bekky MayJul 2, 202110 yearsToday is our 10th wedding anniversary. It feels strange being up here in the wedding field without him. Every year without fail we would...
Bekky MayApr 24, 2021Birthday, Ashes and BluebellsYesterday was Rich’s birthday, his first since he left this world nearly 8 months ago. He would have been 43, but instead he will forever...
Bekky MayFeb 28, 2021Half a year...It somehow is now 6 months since Rich died. Half a year. Yet it feel like only yesterday that I was holding him in my arms. How can time...
Bekky MayDec 30, 2020New Year4 months today and I miss him more than I ever thought was possible. Every. Single. Day. His love, his kindness, his company, his...
Bekky MayNov 29, 2020DecemBEARDWith December round the corner, Rich's brother Phil has decided to launch this year's DecemBEARD, a fundraising event very close to...
Bekky MayNov 11, 2020Thank youIts ten weeks since our beloved Rich died in my arms. I never thought it was possible to miss someone as much as I miss him. Every....
Bekky MaySep 30, 2020One month. One month since our beloved Rich died. One month of emptiness and of heartache. It feels like it was just yesterday, all still so clear...
Bekky MaySep 9, 2020Live streamingGiven the pandemic restrictions, Rich's funeral was live streamed. If you missed it, you can watch it below. Thanks to everyone for the...
Bekky MaySep 4, 2020FuneralOwing to Covid restrictions, sadly, we are limited by numbers as to how many people can attend Rich's funeral. In normal times, we would...
Bekky MayAug 30, 2020Rest in peace, you awesome warrior.It is with a heavy heart that I let you know that Rich died this morning. He was at home and the ambulance crew were here keeping him...
Bekky MayAug 10, 2020Little update from BekkyThe last couple of months have seen quite a considerable change in Rich and his wellbeing. Gradually, slowly, he has become increasingly...
Bekky MayJun 16, 2020DeathSplat. That’s me, splatting it on the table, in all its glory. Death. Sorry. If you don’t like it, move along. Nothing to see here.
Bekky MayJun 4, 2020The StentingYes, two updates in under a week, but this one is just because many kindly people have asked, so I thought I’d write down the whole day,...
Bekky MayMay 28, 2020Update - May 2020As ever, it has been a long time since the last update. For this, I apologise but everytime I sit down to write something, another...
Bekky MayFeb 13, 2020It's February!OK, so the bluebell painting might be a touch premature, but it's so beautiful, was done especially for me, and I wanted to show it off. ...
Bekky MayJan 17, 2020Where to begin..?PLEASE NOTE - The blog has been being complicated and I've had to do some techy-geeky stuff. This post was originally published on 17th...
BekkyDec 27, 2019An update from BekkyLots has been going on since the last blog went out, but here’s just a little update on the latest news. I’ll keep it brief and when Rich...